This has been weighing on mind lately. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 5 years now and going on our 6 year. We’re both lesbians and she’s from overseas also, I’m the only person whom she’s ever dated. There was a time we both used to live together for a couple years until she went back. We did visit one another every 6 months but since ever the pandemic happened it was our first year of not seeing each other and it might happen again. Over the years, the texting and calling decreased to simple mornings and goodnights. So, she has been hanging out with her guy friend a lot plus sleeping over there as well. I do trust her and she trusts me as well. Mainly, I would know it’s because they’re just having a drinking night together. There are times I feel like she’s cheating on me. I have joked around with her a couple of times saying “you’re not cheating on me are you? Lol.” Her response would be “of course not” while laughing since I was joking with her. However, I want to confront her about it but I don’t want to accuse something she didn’t do. what should I do?