I've been in a relationship for nearly a year now. Thing is I don't share photos with me and my partner together on any of my social media. I've been in a lot of failed relationships where you show them off to the world and then they break your heart and you feel silly after showing them off to everyone, as well as I have friends on my social media who are very judgemental and mean spirited when it comes to my partner as we went to the same school together in our younger years. I am not ashamed of my partner, I love them, all our close friends know and hang out with us, my family knows and I have no problem introducing him to new people or more family. I go out with him everywhere, go on holidays etc and I don't really care if other people see me and him interacting on posts on social media etc. But I have become very protective and private when it comes to my relationships, I feel like peoples judgment and jealously can ruin good things when you put them out there so I rather keep them to myself. Why does everyone from high school who I haven't seen in years now need to know who I'm dating? Sometimes it makes my partner feel like I'm hiding him and that makes me feel awful as that's not really my intentions, its more about protection? And who knows maybe one day as the relationship becomes more serious I will share it on things like social media, but for now I'm still pretty timid and nervous about doing that. Is it wrong that I do this? Am I being a bad partner?