To get straight to the point, she isn't 'my kinda friend' and I just became friends with her coz she was very nice to me but my main purpose was to get the attention of another lady (whom I was having a girl crush on). And now that I'm close to that lady, I kinda feel like I'm getting annoyed at some of my friend's behavior like always trying to please her boss, doing even more than what is required of her at work, calling me her "best friend" even though she's not my type of 'best friend'. I feel tied now that she uses that title on me and it's my fault that I just became friends with her coz I had an ulterior motive and I feel so terrible. But now that I have a deep connection with that other person, I'm kinda having this feeling like I want to distance myself from 'my friend'. But at the same time, I owe her all the time she's spent on imagining me as her best friend. I'm in a pickle and I don't know what to do.