I need some advice. I started going out with this guys from work and its been about just over 3 months. Things were going well at first! but for the past few weeks I have been having a lot of doubts as I have this gut feeling that things are not quite right.
He was the first to say love you and has said he considers us to be 'official' he also said at least a month ago or even longer that he doesn't feel the need to use tinder and that he does'nt need to look. The other day he was showing me a video on his phone and he went off youtube and i saw the tinder app and I saw it before too. This has confused me as he was the one that said he didn't feel like he needed to use it and considers us 'official' so I am confused why he would still have it. He was also the one that suggested meeting his parents and didn't think it was too early. I have told him a lot of personal things and he knows a lot about how I feel about myself as I have struggled greatly with body dysmorphia and and eating disorder and this has really made me feel inadequate. I'm just questioning if I should really even be upset with this as we have been seeing each other for about 3 months? I also feel a huge pressure as everyone at work knows and were happy about this and also I worry about disappointing his parents however, this is giving me huge anxiety and has really put me off as I am confused and don't know where I stand even though he said to me we are official?
I want to bring it up with him but I am not sure how, as I am worried about how I will tell him I saw it?
I don't know what to do as I don't want to let everyone down but this has really caused me a lot of stress and anxiety and made me feel so low about myself