Hi asking Jude team! I have a dilemma, I’ve been in a relationship for 7 years with lots of ups and downs. I am starting to realize that maybe this relationship isn’t healthy and I’ve changed myself a lot to adapt to it. I started talking to someone else as friends randomly online and this person and I seem to be clicking and he’s getting feelings for me. I am realizing I look for attention in the wrong places so I’m worried about whether I should even keep talking to this person.
I am not sure if I should keep my relationship because I know I care about and love him still but this new guy is making me question things a lot. My bf and I live together and he has been off work because of quarantine, maybe it’s too much time together or something? I wouldn’t even know how to go about ending things if I did decide that, especially because I asked to stay together a year ago when we broke up for a few days.
I feel like there’s so many things coming into play and I don’t know what to do. I’ve been unhappy lately because i don’t want to be at my job and with everything else going on in the world I’ve been feeling sad or angry and really fatigued. Any tips or articles you could give I would be so thankful.