Have you ever had a secual dream about someone who you know you should not be even thinking about like that, how do you stop it ? I can't stop thinking about them this way now
Having sexual dreams or any dream is perfectly normal. Whether the sexual dream included a stranger or a close friend doesn’t necessarily mean that you want it to happen in real life. According to Ian Wallace, author of “The Top 100 Dreams: The Dreams That We All Have and What They Really Mean” explained that sexual dreams don’t necessarily imply that you want to be intimate with that person. Instead, the specific person pops up because they have an admirable characteristic that you haven’t developed in yourself yet. These characteristics include: kindness, leadership, confidence, honesty, etc. Here is some insight to what dream experts say if your sexual dream includes:
1. Your boss; In real life, you probably admire how your boss takes initiative and possesses leadership qualities. You may or may not be sexually attracted to your boss and have had a lot of one-on-one meetings to get to know one another and have gotten more comfortable with him/her.
2. Your friend; The last thing you want to do is ruin your friendship and make things awkward. Even if your friend whom you have known forever or have met recently has some flaws, you respect his/her other qualities that your subconscious is trying to develop. Your dream doesn’t mean that you have to turn your friendship into a relationship so don’t worry.
3. Your family member; It’s embarrassing when you wake up and realize that you had a sex dream with one of your siblings, parents, or relative and you feel a little sick to even think about and enjoy it. Just as before, you admire the personality trait of the individual such as his/her courage, initiative, etc.
4. Your crush; This is perhaps the most common sex dream and it’s perfectly understandable. You are attracted to this individual and although your dream states that you just want to have sex with this person, you are actually drawn to this person’s compassionate or kind personality trait.
5. Your ex; All you want to do is move on from your ex but you still have recurring sex dreams about them. According to Wallace, he says that having sex dreams about your ex may be a sign that you’re unknowingly repeating bad habits from your failed relationships. That or you are still adjusting to life without them and you may miss this person’s comfort or kindness that you try to not admit to.
In conclusion, dream experts explain that you shouldn’t take your sex dreams too literally or start worrying. Instead, you should consider your sex dreams as a message to get to know yourself more better. Remember that these dreams should not be taken in a literal way that you want to have sex with this person. Realize that these dreams or any dream have different meanings and should not disrupt your life. Hope this helps! Here are some more information and articles that you can read on sex dreams:
I would like to verify that this is completely normal! I've had similar experiences, anonymous.
Hey there,
Having sexual dreams or any dream is perfectly normal. Whether the sexual dream included a stranger or a close friend doesn’t necessarily mean that you want it to happen in real life. According to Ian Wallace, author of “The Top 100 Dreams: The Dreams That We All Have and What They Really Mean” explained that sexual dreams don’t necessarily imply that you want to be intimate with that person. Instead, the specific person pops up because they have an admirable characteristic that you haven’t developed in yourself yet. These characteristics include: kindness, leadership, confidence, honesty, etc. Here is some insight to what dream experts say if your sexual dream includes:
1. Your boss; In real life, you probably admire how your boss takes initiative and possesses leadership qualities. You may or may not be sexually attracted to your boss and have had a lot of one-on-one meetings to get to know one another and have gotten more comfortable with him/her.
2. Your friend; The last thing you want to do is ruin your friendship and make things awkward. Even if your friend whom you have known forever or have met recently has some flaws, you respect his/her other qualities that your subconscious is trying to develop. Your dream doesn’t mean that you have to turn your friendship into a relationship so don’t worry.
3. Your family member; It’s embarrassing when you wake up and realize that you had a sex dream with one of your siblings, parents, or relative and you feel a little sick to even think about and enjoy it. Just as before, you admire the personality trait of the individual such as his/her courage, initiative, etc.
4. Your crush; This is perhaps the most common sex dream and it’s perfectly understandable. You are attracted to this individual and although your dream states that you just want to have sex with this person, you are actually drawn to this person’s compassionate or kind personality trait.
5. Your ex; All you want to do is move on from your ex but you still have recurring sex dreams about them. According to Wallace, he says that having sex dreams about your ex may be a sign that you’re unknowingly repeating bad habits from your failed relationships. That or you are still adjusting to life without them and you may miss this person’s comfort or kindness that you try to not admit to.
In conclusion, dream experts explain that you shouldn’t take your sex dreams too literally or start worrying. Instead, you should consider your sex dreams as a message to get to know yourself more better. Remember that these dreams should not be taken in a literal way that you want to have sex with this person. Realize that these dreams or any dream have different meanings and should not disrupt your life. Hope this helps! Here are some more information and articles that you can read on sex dreams:
https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/sex-dreams
https://www.bustle.com/p/5-unexpected-things-that-can-cause-sex-dreams-according-to-experts-11993494
https://www.allure.com/story/sex-dream-meanings-guide
https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/advice/g3112/sex-dreams/
Best,
Jennie