Hello and thank you in advance
I'm struggling to make friends because I don't talk a lot. I'm constantly telling myself i need to change.
But honestly, when others talk about mundane stuff I'm easily annoyed. They don't have to tell me obvious things, I think. I feel like all the noise is burrying the meaningful. Or when I'm bored by a conversation, even think it's a waste of time, how do I deal with that?
But when I'm with other introverts, it's hard to get a conversation going.
In conclusion I'm blaming the extroverts, blaming myself, blaming the introverts...
I'm already meeting a lot of people and it makes me sad that my efforts aren't working.
Hi,
can i ask for advice again because I dont like my school/college situation:
(I'm in Germany, here it's like that: we're at school for 1 week, then we work at a company for two weeks and then it repeats. We graduate after 3 years.)
20 guys in my class work at the same company, I'm the only girl and I work at a different company.
That one week in school, almost everyone naturally talks with someone, and i feel bad not being included.
Today morning I walked into the room with 5 classmates already there. Three from "my part" of the room were talking about their supervisors and i just sat down after saying hi, the class filled up, it got louder, the first two lessons got cancelled, and i sat there for 2 hours feeling like I'm weird.
I wouldnt join a conversation because im SO afraid of them not wanting me to join. But for example they sometimes talk to me when they feel like it, asking me today if i like horses or if i have an instagram account, because searching up my name there brings up horse pictures. Or they asked me if I know a specific trashy tv show. I actually recently watched a different dating show on the same channel but thats just coming up in my mind now. See, my brain is slow with answers, or maybe even so wired to exclude myself, maybe with someone close to me i wouldve brought up my show.
.... Dunno
Thank you for reading this
Jesse