My best friend of like 13 years has been giving me problems. She always brings up about my ex boyfriend even when I don't want to talk about him. Lately she's been wanting screenshots of conversation I've had about him with others or screenshots about my ex posting harsh things about me online. She keeps crossing boundaries. But she expects me to apologize. I wrote her this huge text explaining that I'm just trying to move on and that I don't feel like I have to screenshot convos I've had with others to send to her. But she's ignored me for 3 or 4 days now. Any help or advice.
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Hey, Nick Stevens! I am a member, here, at Asking Jude, and not a peer counselor. A peer counselor will talk to you in more detail. Based on all of the experiences I've gone through (going by the odds, I am older than you) and based on what you say and don't say in your 'ask,' I have to tell you that your friendship is 'up in the air.' It sounds like a turning point has been reached between the two of you. I would sit down with your best friend and have a long, detailed conversation. Has she been judgmental towards you regarding other matters? At the end of the conversation, if you feel that she is still being judgmental towards you, you'll haave to figure out for yourself whether or not the friendship continues. When someone with whom I'm in a relationship consistently passes judgment on me, I have to end the relationship. Good luck to you...