I posted an ask on your tumblr page that was answered about wondering If I did something wrong by having a hook up before I was in a monogamous relationship with my partner. In the answer you said would I break up with my partner if I found out about a hookup before they were in a relationship with me? My answer would be no I probably wouldn’t bc I understand it happens and we weren’t in a relationship then even if we were casually dating, but I’m afraid he might do that. i Haven’t been stressing About this the whole time we’ve been dating Because I thought I had not done anything wrong as it was before we were in a committed relationship. But I saw a post come up on reddit about this guy who broke up with his otherwise great gf because he found out she slept with someone while he and her were in the “getting to know each other” stage before they made things official due to the guy she hooked up with reaching out to the bf and telling him and now he couldnt get past that. Now I don’t know their whole story etc but it made me feel awful because all of the comments were in support of the poster saying he did the right thing and that she wasnt worthy of being wife material. I didnt really think she did anything morally wrong or that it was worth ending an otherwise good relationship over as it was before they were an offical couple, and it got me thinking maybe my partner would do the same to me bc I had a hook up before him and I were in an offical relationship? My partner can be really, really insecure and jealous about anything to do with other guys liking me or anything in my past relationships so obviously I didn’t think it was worth mentioning to him as he would take it as almost an ego blow to him? So this is why I have suddenly been stressing about this feeling bad like ive done something wrong even though I technically haven’t. am I valid in thinking he might end things just bc of a hook up before we were officically a couple just because he already liked me at that stage? How do I stop stressing about this? What’s your thoughts?