hello! my boyfriend is 20 y/o and he recently told me that when he was 8 he was sexually abused by an adult man. he said that he's fine now and it never was a big deal for him, he even makes jokes about it. he looks over it for sure. i don't know what to do: could he really be over something like that without any help? should i do something about it? should i act differently with him? im scared of doing the wrong thing and to lose him, i don't want to make a big deal if he doesnt care about it.