I'm having a hard time. My mother used to sexually/physically abuse me. I still live at home. I can't afford to live on my own either. I don't have friends to even move in with etc. I confronted my mother a bunch of times over the course of 2 years but she calls me crazy or plays off like she doesn't know what I'm talking about. It went on for over 10 years. Honestly it's ruined me. I'm in my late 20s. But have overcome a lot. But how do I even have a relationship with her? How do I get past certain things? I can't forgive her. But I have to accept what has happened. May be she didn't realize what she did was wrong. Not making her the victim but just trying to understand her. She is a good person. The abuse is difficult to explain so that's why I wrote physical/sexual.