The world is changing and it’s very difficult for me to adapt to modern world. Slowly I learn something new, and another people learn something faster than me. Social medias have become very “noisy”, they only discuss trends, what is now popular; films, TV series, musicians and actors. 10 years ago the world wasn’t so “noisy”, and I miss old times so much (2000s and 2010s). Society has been changed. Due to the pandemic streaming services and TV series released by such services became so popular. I got used to watch only blockbusters in cinema since childhood. I feel so exhausted. It seems that my brain can’t accept many information. Sometimes I ask myself: “Is everything okay with me? It shouldn’t be like this» . I think I don`t have a conventional or ‘mainstream’ way of thinking or feeling.
I don't have many friends, I explained them that it is difficult for me to adapt to new trends and they understood me otherwise they would often talk to me about trends.
I don’t want to be so pessimistic, but it seems to me that time for the cinemas is going to be finished, not so much people will go to the cinemas. Blockbusters, yes, they will be released but not often.
Hey there,
I’m sorry to hear that you’re having such a hard time. Even before the pandemic, it seems that things have been changing at such a fast pace. You are not alone in this. The pandemic has changed a lot of things in terms of entertainment, as well. Movies are being released differently. I know some things are hard to accept. Sometimes, I wonder if this is all reality. It feels like a bad dream.
Adapting to how things are changing can be difficult, but there is peace in the chaos and confusion. Perhaps taking a break from social media will be helpful. You can keep in contact with your friends in different ways, such as email, texting—or take it all the way back and talk on the phone. Here are some benefits of taking a break from social media: https://www.lifehack.org/483829/9-positive-benefits-of-a-social-media-detox.
With everything going on, it can be hard to feel like you’re staying afloat. I have to take a break from the news sometimes because it seems like it’s always filled with bad news. Here are some tips to help you when you’re feeling overwhelmed: https://achancetochange.org/new-blog/protecting-mental-health.
Having friends who understand what you are contending with is a great help. Maybe you guys can have a movie night together. You can pop popcorn and bring different snacks. It won’t be the same as when you would go to the cinema, but it may give you a sense of normalcy. If you don’t feel safe doing this, you can watch via Zoom, FaceTime, or any other video-conferencing app. Here are some tips on how to have a Zoom film party: https://www.lung.org/getmedia/9e7cf71d-1ab1-464e-bd75-a0130865bc7e/tips-to-host-a-virtual-film-screening-via-zoom.pdf.
It’s perfectly okay to learn things at a slower pace than other people. Everyone has their own pace. Give yourself as much time as you need to adjust to something new. There is no time limit. You are doing the best you can.
Hang in there,
Andrea
One way to sum up what you are saying in your 'ask', Alfastar, is that the quality of communication throughout your society has depreciated.
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