Hope you are all well and taking care of yourselves during this time.
I just wanted to ask for some advice.
I am in a long distance relationship with a guy. But he is very insecure, I have tried to be understanding but it is becoming very stressful for me.
If I am not what he classes as 'busy' it means I should be replying to him. So if I am just chilling and don't want to be on my phone he gets upset. Someone in my family passed and I was taking time for myself and family and he was getting upset and taking it personally. If I talk to other people he gets very jealous, so I don't have any friends, he says thats not his fault because he is ok with me having friends but he get jealous if I speak to anyone? At university I was doing a group project and I HAD to tell them I had a boyfriend even though I had just met them. The other day he told me he had a nightmare that I was with someone else because we didn't call one night. If I don't feel like calling one night he takes it very personally. He tells me that I should be flattered that someone cares about me this much, but I don't. I feel sick and trapped and we don't even see eachother in real life
I understand having insecurities but at what point is enough, enough? I don't know.
I think I am also scared because I am 24 years old and never been in a relationship in real life and I am scared I will never find anyone so I put up with it.