Hello, there. I'm new with this so I'm sorry if I do something wrong.
Long story short, the three of us used to be friends at one point. They dated for a year and broke up.
Almost a year later, when I was no longer friends with the girl (as she was mean to me and used to took advantage of my work at college), the boy and I started dating and eventually got into a relationship. We've been happy together for over a year. I never got to talk to her again as she avoided me and was mad at me (I can see why) but she kept trying to talk to him.
At first it was normal things like favours but she started to ask him to meet her as she was having "anxiety problems". At the same time she was telling all our common friends how bad of a person I was.
He refused, she insisted (different dramas, different reasons, different type of mental issues, etc) and he ended up blocking her. He later told me that she used to be toxic in the relationship they had and that she made him felt guilty over silly things. I don't want him to look like the "crazy ex girlfriend" kind of guy, she was like that in our friendship too, so I know what it feels like.
We thought it was over but she made a youtube channel to exclusively talk about how I, her "best friend", stole his boyfriend. We know about this because she made her (actual) best friend told me in social media (I don't even know her!).
At this point I don't know what to do. I don't what it to be such a big deal but I feel like I've been dealing with her dramas all this time and honestly, it's getting exhausting.
Should I confront her or is it giving her what she wants?
Should I ignore her and just go on with my life?
This has nothing to do with me and shouldn't take it personal?
Thank you for reading all of this, I send you all love and the best wishes