Recently my friend got into a relationship with a girl who surprised all of us. This girl only dated women throughout the years and suddenly started dating my friend out of nowhere. He told us she is lesbian, but then she started dating him out of nowhere. The thing is, he has a stable job and just bought a house last year in the summer. I thought it was odd because she blew him off when he confessed to her eight years ago, then started dating this girl shortly after the confession. The ex was from out of state and went to live with her ex. I was told she did like my friend but didn't know how to go with it because she was going through a rough time, and the only one who reached out to her was her ex. I told him that is weird because if she did like you, she would have told you she wasn't ready to be in a relationship, but she ended up dating her ex, which didn't make sense to me. Then all of a sudden, she likes you. He also told me she told him if he wanted to know how she felt that day (the day he confessed to her), he had to ask her best friend about it, which didn't even make more sense to me because wouldn't it make more sense to hear from her directly than from someone else. Most of us are scared that she is using him for his benefits because he used to be in the military, and he's successful. He also told me he doesn't know whether she is pregnant or not recently because there has been a couple of times they had unprotected sex, and they have only been dating for two months. So, when he told me he was going to test whether she was pregnant or not, this made me think he is not ready to have a child despite him saying he was okay with it. I told him I understand it's his girlfriend but I don't know what he wants out of this relationship.