My friend started acting strange less than a year ago. I was in a relationship she didn't approve of. She always has been judgy of my life. I guess I was always afraid of losing her. Been friends 15+ yrs. The thing is she never talked personal with me. I found out things thru mutual friends. She was always trying to one up me even tho I didn't care. She finally got a job and became snobby. We are in our late 20s. I never judged her for never working but I hated that she judged me constantly. She was always trying to prove some point. Well my life changed in 2021. That's when my friend became a stranger. In November I got hurt in an accident. My friend was nowhere. She appeared to talk when she wanted to but got mad/aggressive if I asked for a chat. We live over 1 hour apart but she never commits to meeting up. I started not recognizing her. It was her way or the highway. She got distant at New Year's. She stopped talking and disappeared finally. I did everything literally to find her. She sent one msg months later and that's all. I got no answers from her. What do i do? I miss her a lot but she's mia. Its been 8 months since we actually talked and 3 months since she texted me. Any advice id appreciate.